I was told a thousand times over to not call my X.

It took 36 days for me to call him the first time. What I realized was that he was in the same boat and I had flourished. I am glad I called. I wanted to make sure the pain was worth it, and IT WASN’t. I got so much out of that call. He is totally happy in his continuum.

I called back 4 days later because I missed the friendship and I realized, I will probably call a few more times. Not because I need him, but…

Ana-Maria Medina, PhD

1st Vicente’s Mom 👦🏼 #daringgreatly ❤️my tribe 🌻 2nd: PADI 🤿 Wanderluster🌍 🧘‍♀️ Yogi | 🌻Nature lover | Minimalist 🍀 Lucky in todo

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